George Walker
George was the Chief Stylist for the Ford Motor Company in the late 1950's. He presided over the very large, curved building known as The Ford Styling Studios. He had an article written abut him in Time Magazine in which he was drubbed the Celini of Chrome. He drove an all white Lincoln convertible, white paint, white leather, white instrument panel, white sidewall tires. He had an all white, large dog which he ferried around in the front seat. He liked attention. He looked like Santa Claus without the beard and white hair. His face was ruddy and his belly did shake like jelly. He was fond of walking down the very wide center isle in the Styling Building and greeting everybody that he passed by. His greeting was mostly the same: "Hi,ya fella" and he would extend his hand for a handshake. His smile was infectious and everyone around him usually was smiling. Everybody in that building knew him and his penchant for shaking hands.
One day, while walking with another designer, we were closing in on George coming our way. After shaking hands my partner said to George: "How about buying us a drink." I could not believe he said that and found it an imposition on him. However, George quickly put his hand in his pocket while saying: "of course, take what you need." My partner took some coins out of his hand and George offered it to me. At this point I looked into George's hand. It was puffy with fat fingers and it held many coins of all denominations, including a St. Christopher medal. As I reached into his hand a strange feeling came over me. I felt like a beggar with shabby clothes and appearing hungry. I remember thinking: "Why am I doing this, I can buy my own drink." It felt like I was grovelling for his largess. I played the part of the good employee, took out some coins and thanked him. He was soon on his down the isle.
I never forgot that feeling. It was not the first time that I reached into a persons hand for a coin because it happened often when selling papers on the corner of Lawndale and Vernor. But this was significantly different from the transaction of getting money for a paper while giving the paper in return. This was downright demeaning and I was shamed by doing it. I resolved then to never put myself in that kind of position again.
One day, while walking with another designer, we were closing in on George coming our way. After shaking hands my partner said to George: "How about buying us a drink." I could not believe he said that and found it an imposition on him. However, George quickly put his hand in his pocket while saying: "of course, take what you need." My partner took some coins out of his hand and George offered it to me. At this point I looked into George's hand. It was puffy with fat fingers and it held many coins of all denominations, including a St. Christopher medal. As I reached into his hand a strange feeling came over me. I felt like a beggar with shabby clothes and appearing hungry. I remember thinking: "Why am I doing this, I can buy my own drink." It felt like I was grovelling for his largess. I played the part of the good employee, took out some coins and thanked him. He was soon on his down the isle.
I never forgot that feeling. It was not the first time that I reached into a persons hand for a coin because it happened often when selling papers on the corner of Lawndale and Vernor. But this was significantly different from the transaction of getting money for a paper while giving the paper in return. This was downright demeaning and I was shamed by doing it. I resolved then to never put myself in that kind of position again.
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You and I were raised to disrespect people on welfare or who accept charity for doing nothing to earn it. Our parents were never on the dole (as far as I know)in spite of the tough economic times they lived through. I expect that made you uncomfortable accepting that money.
Today welfare recipients are held in high esteem and wage earners and business owners are disrespected and demonized as greedy. Go figure.
By John Beauregard, at 11:18 AM
I do recall that we were visited on Christmas by the "Goodfellows" whos's slogan was: "No child without a Christmas." All kids recieved a box of stuff, the girls box was different from the boys. Included in every box was a coupon for a pair of shoes. The redemption center was in downtown Detroit.
The pandemonium at that center stays with me today. It was winter time and heavy coats were worn in this huge room which was so hot all coats were open and scarf's were set aside down the shoulders.
There were boxes of shoes everywhere, some in piles that had not been opened, some boxes open and shoes being tried on, other boxes laying open and just left on the floor, the paper inside the box strewn about the floor. Some people trying on shoes with their mothers overseeing the sizing, other kids just trying on shoes and then pushing them aside to lie there until .. what.. I remember the hub-bub and exasperation of some of the people around us. The looks on adult faces of determination to get these free shoes for their kids.
When we, as a family, left there we were all damp form the heat and humidity in that building. It was always cold (about 10 degrees) when we exited and I recall that one time Rita got a very bad cold which lasted for a few weeks. Mamma attributed her cold to exposure while getting those shoes.
Yes, I recall the something for nothing crowd and it was not pleasant. The vast majority of the people there were black. I do not know how we got on the Goodfellow's list but I do know Pappa did not refuse it. He was grateful for the Goodfellows. It may be that all this happend before you came along.
By Marcel, at 8:56 AM
I guess I am wrong about never being on the dole. Were you embarrassed accepting those shoes?
I do not recall the boxes but I do recall the new shoes experience. Don't know how old I was (very young) but I recall the very large room with a very high ceiling and tall columns and the chaos. Pa was not with us, probably at work. I think we took the bus with ma to the building downtown somewhere I think.
By John Beauregard, at 6:47 AM
The transportation we took with Mamma was the Vernor streetcar then transferred to the Jefferson streetcar going north. It was not a long trip on the Jefferson streetcar, so that building was at the center of Detroit.
I don't recall my feelings about free shoes, I knew we were a large family and living near the edge. We did not have some of the things others had but what we did have was repaired and cared for. Do you remember Pappa re-soleing our shoes? giving us haircuts? In this sense we were better off than some of our classmates.
There must have been an age cutoff because I remember a trip planned to go get the shoes and Bernie and I did not have to go. I believe you went. Relief was what I felt when I was not going on that trip, not for any embarassment but the whole experience was disagreeable.
By Marcel, at 7:39 AM
I do recall Pa repairing shoes and cutting my hair in the basement.
I have no memory of either you or Bernie being at the shoe giveaways that I attended.
I recall there were no shoe fitters at the giveaway. Ma was our shoe fitter, carefully checking my shoes for room for growth. I accepted anything Ma said was acceptable but I recall the three girls (being older than me) were picky about their shoe style and color. I remember some tears being shed which I did not understand. OLD MEMORIES
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